Jennifer Cramer-Miller

Writer + Speaker + Author of

Incurable Optimist:

Living with Illness & Chronic Hope

BookFest Award Winner

The BookFest First Place Award + Readers Favorite Gold Medal + IPPY Gold Winner + Living Now Award, Bronze + Next Generation Finalist + National Indie Excellence (Inspiration, Medical, NF)
International Impact Book Award (Family, Medical)  + 2025 Independent Press Award - INSPIRATION
Book Excellence Award (Family)

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Hi, I'm Jennifer. Thanks for joining me! Through my writing and advocacy, I explore the power of connection and stories of hope. I write fiction and nonfiction, and believe words help us uncover life's mix of beauty and bummers.

My award-winning book, Incurable Optimist: Living with Illness and Chronic Hope, is available wherever books are sold, in print, audio, and e-book formats. I'm delighted Publishers Weekly provided a starred review, calling it ". . .a knockout memoir. . ." And Kirkus Reviews called it ". . .unfailingly entertaining. . ." I call it my heart and soul bound into a book.

I loved the review that called it a love letter to life—and I hope Incurable Optimist inspires readers to deepen their compassion for themselves and others and marvel at the power of people helping people. We're ALL in this together. And sometimes, it's the sorrows that threaten to pull us apart that ultimately unite us in hope and love.

Besides my writing and speaking, I'm an advocate for humans trying to embrace life's dance between uncertainty and joy.

My work is featured in: Zibby Mag, Brevity Blog, HuffPost, She's Got Issues, The Sunlight Press, Star Tribune, Grown & Flown, Mamalode, The Erma Bombeck Blog, The Kindness Blog, and Minnesota Physician. I'm also a PEER Mentor for the National Kidney Foundation, an ambassador for Donate Life, and a wellness advocate (a Joy Scouter) to support people who manage uncertainty.

Because we all have stories and I believe they matter.

  jennifer
WRITER & SPEAKER

Specializing in stories of hope.

 

JOY ADVOCATE

As a self-proclaimed joy advocate, I try to spread it all around through my One Lovely Thing Journal and my quarterly newsletter.

 

AUTHOR:

Incurable Optimist: Living with Illness and Chronic Hope

DISTRIBUTED BY SIMON AND SCHUSTER

Now available in print, e-book, and audio book formats! Wherever books are sold. STAY TUNED FOR MY UPCOMING NOVEL!

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Uncertainty

Uncertainty is a sure thing. That's why we must accept the unacceptable and embrace what it means to be human. I hope this story becomes a companion to all who toggle between life's good and bad. And a reminder to savor simple joys.

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Survival

At twenty-two, I felt full of promise. After a sudden diagnosis, I found myself soaking a hospital pillow with tears as I unwillingly crossed over from wellness to illness. My survival hinged upon doctors, kind strangers, and devoted loved ones. But what kind of life would that be?

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Chronic Hope

Spanning 2-1/2 decades, this family love story explores loss, acceptance, and surviving with hope. Shining a bright light on people helping people in difficult times, this story will inspire you to live fully, and hug the humans you love.

Questions + Answers

Q. Are you available for speaking events?

Yes! My previous speaking topics include moving forward with uncertainty to find joy, employee empowerment and connection to purpose, and the road to resilience. I have spoken to Fortune 500, health care and pharmaceutical companies, international conferences, medical schools, and nonprofit organizations. If you’d like to inquire about booking me as your speaker, let me know via email. I’d love to learn more about your event!

Q. What is the first thing you say to people struggling with difficult situations?

First off, I never deny difficulties and suggest, hey, just be happy! That doesn't work. It isn’t helpful to suggest we can happy away our hardships. I suggest reserving a special notebook (or section of your notebook) to vent. I call this a dammit dump. Spill the noisy contents in your head. Write them down. Exhaust their energy. This helps to untangle your difficulties a bit to free up valuable mental space.

Q. Is your glass half empty or half full?

I’m a half full gal. But I’ve also come to realize this age-old question isn’t the right one. Is the glass half full or half empty? It assumes the most critical of things—you have a glass. The glass is life. It’s everything, so I guess ultimately, I remind myself to be grateful for the glass.

Q. What helps you stay positive with a chronic illness?

It's a process to strive for acceptance, savor small joys, and hang on to hope. I have tremendous gratitude for the people who've helped me, so I channel that back into the kidney health community. This advocacy boosts me.

I'm thrilled to serve as the 2023-26 Board Chair for the local National Kidney Foundation, work as a National Patient Mentor, and help kidney patients share their stories. Besides that, it's a bonus that my daughter makes me laugh at the drop of a hat, my husband is my steady Eddie, and my pup Penny wags with delight every time I enter the room.

Q. Is Incurable Optimist available in formats other than print?

Yes! Audiobook and e-book versions are widely available through Amazon and other retailers.

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“There are always flowers for those who choose to see them.”

-Henri Matisse-

"I  believe in kindness. Also in mischief. Also in singing, especially when singing is not necessarily prescribed."

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